I love Jesus!!!!
I also love people, inspire hope, speak, write,
think about theology, root for the Chiefs, geek out on
Star Wars, and am glad Thanos lost.
Caleb Kaltenbach is a pastor and founder of The Messy Grace Group where he helps churches love and foster community with LGBTQ individuals without sacrificing theological convictions. He's currently writing Messy Truth and has also authored God of Tomorrow and Messy Grace (where he discusses being raised in the LGBTQ community, following Jesus, and how loving others doesn’t require shifting beliefs).
Besides speaking, writing, and consulting, Caleb has been guest with or featured in The New York Times, Fox and Friends, The Glenn Beck Show, The Eric Metaxas Show, Christianity Today, Focus on the Family, Family Life Today, Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast, Church Leaders Podcast, The 700 Club, unSeminary Podcast, Moody radio shows, Q Ideas Podcast, Dallas Seminary Table Podcast, and more.
A graduate of Ozark Christian College, Talbot School of Theology (Biola University), he received his doctorate from Dallas Theological Seminary. In addition to having served as a lead pastor and associate pastor, Caleb has served on the boards of ministries and colleges. He and his family live in Southern California.
In a time when we’re pressured to choose between convictions and compassion, my friend Caleb urges us to stand for both. His experiences, beliefs, ministry, and empathy make him a needed voice in today’s culture.
~Carey Nieuwhof, Author of Didn't See It Coming
"Caleb’s ability to help us adhere to both biblical truth and grace towards the LGTBQ community has been a blessing to the body of Christ!! His ministry has enriched my life and others greatly!"
~Bryan Carter, Senior Pastor, Concord Church
Caleb is a trusted person of character who connects with all types of people. He has a profound ability to see things from fresh angles, presents his ideas in compelling ways, and his love for others is contagious.
~Jud Wilhite, Senior Pastor, Central Church & author of Pursued
I am so grateful for Caleb Kaltenbach’s book Messy Grace... it contains everything I have been attempting to communicate over the years when it comes to how Christians should relate to the LGBT community.
~Jackie Hill Perry, Author, Bible Teacher, Hi-Hop Artist
Caleb cuts through the confusion and talks about what it really means to love people and what is really means to follow God—and how they’re not mutually exclusive ideas.
~Reggie Joiner, Founder & CEO of Orange
After Caleb spoke at my church, the social media world was abuzz with this being one of the best sermons they had ever heard. He has a heart for people and it shows in his attitude.
~Mark Lee, Lead Pastor, Vantage Point Church
Caleb is the perfect leader for times like this. He is a great thinker and a compelling communicator. He is the best I have seen at teaching this generation to love everyone without sacrificing their convictions.
~Ray Johnston, Senior Pastor, Bayside Church
Kaltenbach is a voice of hope for Christians struggling to remain at ease despite the uncertainties of today.
~Barry Corey, President, Biola University & author of Loving Kindness
My friend Caleb not only has a heart for God and people, but he’s passionate about helping churches to understand how to love people well..
~Efrem Smith, Author, Co-Lead Pastor, Bayside Church Midtown Campus
Caleb’s life story is rich with diversity and has given him truly unique insights as to how people see both Christians and the Church. His understanding of how God’s grace practically applies to all the messy situations church leaders have to deal with is refreshing and truly helpful.
~Mark Montemayor, Executive Pastor, Real Life Christian Church Orlando
Caleb has been a great asset to our ministry. He is so easy to work with, an excellent leader & understands what it truly means to love people while simultaneously following and obeying Christ.
~Heather Mahoney, Next Gen Director, Crossroads Grace Church
I love Caleb’s disarming style of delivering tough, enduring truths. He is an authentic voice for this generation.
~Dennis Rainey, CoFounder of FamilyLife, a CRU Ministry
Messy Grace Group
Churches can love LGBTQ individuals without sacrificing their convictions
I started The Messy Grace Group to help churches honor their values and lovingly understand LGBTQ individuals. Since 2017, I've worked with 70+ churches (from church plants to attendances of 30,000+), 10 ministries, 7 denominations, several higher learning institutions (colleges, universities, seminaries), and numerous leaders. I believe your church/ministry can develop systems & practices that reflect your beliefs while engaging the LGBTQ reality in grace and truth. Whether it's teaching, conflict management, problem solving, working with families, staff, volunteers, and more, I want to help. With Christ-centered values, empathy, and authenticity, we can lead through the tension of grace and truth!
Preaching & teaching
Parent and family talks
Consulting & coaching for staff teams, ministry depts, boards, volunteers, etc.
Policy drafting and review
Seminars, classes, breakouts, etc.
Conflict resolution & problem solving
Sermon, lesson & curriculum planning
Caleb is able to and has experience working with different types of churches and leaders. He has an unusual ability to help people navigate nuance in situations and ideas.
~Jason Caine, Lead Campus Pastor, Bayside Church Blue Oaks Campus
*Messy Grace Group" consulting travel dates and Zoom calls are not usually reflected in the schedule below
*Dates & locations do not appear until they are confirmed
12/27/20 Living Way Community Church, Pasadena, CA
1/3/2021 Knott Avenue Christian Church, Anaheim, CA
1/10/2021 New Vintage Church, San Diego, CA
2/14/2021 University Christian Church, Los Angeles
2/18/2021 University Christian Church, Manhattan, KS
3/9-10/2021 Illuminate Community Church, Scottsdale, AZ
3/10/2021 Christ's Church of the Valley, Phoenix, AZ
3/12/2021 Mega-Church Pastor Zoom Gathering
3/22/2021 KC Area Pastor's Zoom Gathering
3/23/2021 The Solomon Foundation Leader's Zoom Gathering
4/9-10/202 Forum Christian Church Leader Retreat, Columbia, MO
4/22/2021 Manhattan Christian College, Manhattan, KS
4/23-25/2021 University Christian Church, Manhattan, KS
4/26/2021 KC Area Pastor's Zoom Gathering
5/1-2/2021 Stonebridge Chrisitan Church, Omaha, NE
5/11/2021 Compass Christian Church, DFW
5/15-17/21 Parkview Christian Church, Chicago, IL
5/27/2021 242 Community Church Zoom staff/leader gathering
6/1/2021 Radius Church, North Hollywood, CA
6/18-20/2021 Prescott Christian Church, Prescott, AZ
6/21-22/2021 Southeast Christian Church, Louisville, KY
6/23/2021 CIY Summer Conference, Johnson City, TN
6/24/2021 Milligan University, Johnson, TN
7/12-16/2021 CIY Summer Conference, Biola University
7/18/2021 Mission City Church, Santa Barbara, CA
7/21/2021 CIY Summer Conference, Warrensberg, MO
8/7/2021 Community Christian Church, Hemet, CA
9/7-9/2021 Compass Christian Church, Phoenix, AZ
9/3-5/2021 Crossroads Church Leaders Retreat, Corona, CA
9/14-16/2021 Spire Network Conference, Nashville, TN
9/12/2021 VantagePoint Church, Eastvale, CA
9/30-10/3/2021 Compass Christian Church, DFW
November First Impressions Conference
3/8-9/2022 National Preaching Summit, Indianapolis, IN
3/24-27/2022 River Christian Church, Jacksonville, FL
5/15/2022 Madison Hills Christian Church, Richmond, KY
Caleb has a powerful story. He’s one of the most authentic and real people I know. I'm thankful for the time our team spent with him.
~Aaron Brockett, Senior Pastor, Traders Point Christian Church
Westerville Christian Church in Westerville, OH
Parent/volunteer talks, Irving Bible Church, Dallas
Work with Phoenix-area churches.
The Orange Conference
Calvary Fellowship conference in Miami, FL
Redemption Christian Church in Jasper, IN
Trace Church in Colorado Springs
Hoboken Grace Community Church in Hoboken, NJ
MastersCamp in San Antonio
Indian Creek Christian Church
and more in the works...
Caleb is the voice that the church has needed. His testimony gives him unmatched credibility to be heard and respected on both sides of the LGBTQ discussion. He has helped our church walk confidently in the tension of grace and truth that Jesus Himself demonstrated. I can’t thank Caleb enough for all he’s done.
~Brian Hunt, Senior Pastor, Crossroads Grace Community Church